I get bothered when people tell me I’m too superficial and concerned about appearances.  To be honest, I’m probably not vigilant enough.  I don’t buy into vanity necessarily being a bad thing because like it or not, you will be judged on your appearance.  If you’re 100 pounds overweight I can promise you that people talk about how fat you are and strangers will certainly think lesser of you because of it.  If I were to meet you and found out you smoked, I’d judge you for it and I can’t help it, I just do it and I’m not going to be changing anytime soon.  If your teeth are yellow, get the best teeth whitening you can.  If they’re crooked, get ‘em straightened.  Comb your hair, cut yours nails and look good.